Me: "That sounds awful, and something that guys should stop doing. I often get a lot of insulting messages on my IG pictures because I show off my body. There's too few girls who really show their sexuality" I both find that the most natural thing, but I also find it very sexy. Sex is the most natural thing in the world, and I believe that girls should feel allowed to act on their desires just like men can, without getting shamed for it. I have been close to an orgasm multiple times but it's just like when I reach the point just before, I can't let my body let loose" aren't comfortable with the guy they are having sex with, or aren't comfortable with their own body.Ģ. A big part of it is because of pressure from society. A lot of women today can't really reach a orgasm. Her: "Let's just start with the negative, and get that out of the way" Me: "Do you want the negative or positive first?" I'm actually very jealous of girls when it comes to sex, but it's really a double edged sword. I felt like I delivered my sex talk pretty good but I did not have the effect I wanted on her. I had a hard time getting sexual tension with her, and felt like I had some kind of resistance. That's probably the highest social value girl I've been on a date with. I was on a date with Miss Instagram a little over a week ago. If you move back to a general topic, start over.Especially when at or near SOTXs and SOTs.Listen for anything a step or two away from an SOT.Pay attention when good subjects come up (SOTXs).Through weasel phrases into SOTS or sex talk.Steer towards romantic, fascinating, seductive things Techs eg mini cold reads, statements, pacing and leading towards light resistance removing frames, drama, breaking rapport, listing, contrasting, push-pull.Stimulating her responses through emotional stimulation – descriptive language -> lots of adjectives and adverbs, variations in pace, and with a calm and relaxed voice from the chest AND linking positive emotions and her emotional states to you.Steer towards engaging her emotions and imagination in a positive way Experiences and themes she can mirror which you use as bait to into conversation topics you want Nudging further into topics she brings up through active asking into these in stimulating ways.Asking what she does and eliciting values.Steer towards fun, exciting and interesting topics Goal: Move the conversation in a good direction Very light disqualification/mixed signals -> “My attraction for you just went this low”.